<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Notes by Khia]]></title><description><![CDATA[Empower, Inspire, and Encourage ]]></description><link>https://notesbykhia.wixsite.com/notesbykhia/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2026 21:26:31 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://notesbykhia.wixsite.com/notesbykhia/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[2024 Olympics: Unforgettable lessons from the world's greatest athletes on resilience, a winning mindset, and mental wellness]]></title><description><![CDATA[Lessons that Sha'Carri, Jordan, Simon, and Noah are teaching us in the 2024 Olympics]]></description><link>https://notesbykhia.wixsite.com/notesbykhia/post/2024-olympics-unforgettable-lessons-from-the-wold-s-best-athletes</link><guid isPermaLink="false">669e9c212db47fc2cba38263</guid><category><![CDATA[Mental Health]]></category><category><![CDATA[Faith & Love]]></category><category><![CDATA[mindset]]></category><pubDate>Mon, 22 Jul 2024 19:14:33 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/7b3c45_a172f86d5e314170a3bb61827d31b043~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Khia </dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Coaching vs. Therapy ]]></title><description><![CDATA[I have served my community through therapy in Oklahoma and Virginia since 2016 and began coaching in 2018. There are a fewkey differences...]]></description><link>https://notesbykhia.wixsite.com/notesbykhia/post/coaching-vs-therapy</link><guid isPermaLink="false">669d5d7bdc79bd705a2e75d9</guid><pubDate>Sun, 21 Jul 2024 20:26:26 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/7b3c45_c7fe6f0160754f918682b5233afe993f~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Khia </dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[anxiety blocking abundance ]]></title><description><![CDATA[I recognized that I prayed for money for pizza, it came to me, and before I could express gratitude I was pushing it away.]]></description><link>https://notesbykhia.wixsite.com/notesbykhia/post/anxiety-blocking-abundance</link><guid isPermaLink="false">66985841c7da78343e68ad6c</guid><category><![CDATA[Faith & Love]]></category><category><![CDATA[mindset]]></category><pubDate>Thu, 18 Jul 2024 00:55:16 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/7b3c45_7f3afd982482476f95892c53f8f0da5a~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Khia </dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Importance of Parents' Care for Children's Mental Health: A Closer Look]]></title><description><![CDATA[I'm always amazed by the negative responses that I get when I speak about adults needing to consider their children's mental health while...]]></description><link>https://notesbykhia.wixsite.com/notesbykhia/post/the-importance-of-parents-care-for-children-s-mental-health-a-closer-look</link><guid isPermaLink="false">663b0dd7f9550fcccd64660a</guid><category><![CDATA[Children's Mental Health ]]></category><pubDate>Thu, 09 May 2024 03:42:21 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/7b3c45_48a8190cea3d4322a3474fa9a6ad012b~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Khia </dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[5 Things That Could be Traumatizing Your Child (even in the best homes)]]></title><description><![CDATA[I previously had a podcast episode on kids dealing with trauma. If you have not heard it you can check it out, here. I wanted to add...]]></description><link>https://notesbykhia.wixsite.com/notesbykhia/post/5-things-that-could-be-traumatizing-your-child-even-in-the-best-homes</link><guid isPermaLink="false">62d84088a1ea12fda7a4826a</guid><category><![CDATA[Children's Mental Health ]]></category><category><![CDATA[Mental Health]]></category><pubDate>Wed, 20 Jul 2022 18:47:08 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/7b3c45_1de4e9ccfb624b2ea4606664adfa6c10~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_630,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Khia </dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Raising Boys]]></title><description><![CDATA[A few years ago when I was only blogging I wrote a post, Boys will be...Held Responsible (check it out with the 2022 updates here). Well,...]]></description><link>https://notesbykhia.wixsite.com/notesbykhia/post/raising-boys</link><guid isPermaLink="false">62ab4294e3fcd695bc69d17d</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 Jun 2022 14:47:56 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/7b3c45_22b6c0c699144a338cd7098d98c2caee~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Khia </dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Disney World saved my life (TW: Su*cide)]]></title><description><![CDATA[I have shared a few different times that I attempted to end my life multiple times, with the first time being at age 12, but I had not...]]></description><link>https://notesbykhia.wixsite.com/notesbykhia/post/disney-world-saved-my-life-tw-su-cide</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6276c0b1414d988ede4297b4</guid><pubDate>Sat, 07 May 2022 19:39:28 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/7b3c45_80cdb9c46f8d4ee8a04d03a0d0c0604e~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_630,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Khia </dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Fragile: Handle with Care]]></title><description><![CDATA[Anybody else feel that your pre-teen or teen just needs this stamped right on their forehead? Pre-teen and teen emotions can be a lot to...]]></description><link>https://notesbykhia.wixsite.com/notesbykhia/post/fragile-handle-with-care</link><guid isPermaLink="false">625c4af53d96975cdde93423</guid><category><![CDATA[Children's Mental Health ]]></category><pubDate>Tue, 19 Apr 2022 07:00:12 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/7b3c45_ae74e49c5e4d40d5aa3b3db259ecc843~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_630,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Khia </dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Black Mindful Parenting...and why I won't stop teaching it]]></title><description><![CDATA[Mindful parenting isn't just for white families and here is why black families need it. ]]></description><link>https://notesbykhia.wixsite.com/notesbykhia/post/black-mindful-parenting-and-why-i-won-t-stop-teaching-it</link><guid isPermaLink="false">61d5051f66b14a001613ac3d</guid><category><![CDATA[Children's Mental Health ]]></category><category><![CDATA[Mental Health]]></category><pubDate>Thu, 06 Jan 2022 05:59:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/7b3c45_3cdf53b109454345b59de06c347bb4e6~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_600,h_315,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Khia </dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[3 Ways to Ditch the Stress and Parent/Educate Mindfully ]]></title><description><![CDATA[OK, let's be real, as great as parenting and educating mindfully SOUNDS it is not always an EASY feat]]></description><link>https://notesbykhia.wixsite.com/notesbykhia/post/3-ways-to-ditch-the-stress-and-parent-educate-mindfully</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6190035d2511010016979957</guid><category><![CDATA[Mental Health]]></category><category><![CDATA[Children's Mental Health ]]></category><pubDate>Sat, 13 Nov 2021 06:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/7b3c45_17dbbf0673a140b0927adf2969ebe8e3~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Khia </dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[every moment counts ]]></title><description><![CDATA[Not every interACTION with your child/student will be perfect but they can all be mindful and they do all matter.]]></description><link>https://notesbykhia.wixsite.com/notesbykhia/post/every-moment-counts</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6152972825befa00177da547</guid><category><![CDATA[Children's Mental Health ]]></category><category><![CDATA[Mental Health]]></category><pubDate>Wed, 29 Sep 2021 05:00:08 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/7b3c45_5f6ffe7944e34cc9b530cb315cf5ac59~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Khia </dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Dreams Come True ]]></title><description><![CDATA[I dreamed of becoming a voice for children and I had no idea how it would happen...until I found it  Working in schools for the past...]]></description><link>https://notesbykhia.wixsite.com/notesbykhia/post/dreams-come-true</link><guid isPermaLink="false">614cce6ef6fb180016239393</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Sep 2021 19:04:14 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/7b3c45_d63046e2d19a4dc0b3c3ebdc9920e3fc~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Khia </dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[NBK Shifts...AGAIN]]></title><description><![CDATA[I've always been one to question when "rules" don't make sense and it is no different in my business , Notes by Khia, LLC. Being a...]]></description><link>https://notesbykhia.wixsite.com/notesbykhia/post/nbk-shifts-again</link><guid isPermaLink="false">612c0bd35d12db001763f9ca</guid><pubDate>Sun, 29 Aug 2021 22:42:17 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/7b3c45_a61f9cfc0ea643f3a8fa4d930947c884~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_768,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Khia </dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[You Changed!]]></title><description><![CDATA[In Black Families we have developed this “you changed” narrative that has a negative connotation. It is one that brings a lot of fear to...]]></description><link>https://notesbykhia.wixsite.com/notesbykhia/post/you-changed</link><guid isPermaLink="false">608d27871a81630015791997</guid><pubDate>Sat, 01 May 2021 10:21:11 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/7b3c45_3302e06ff82642f8b56557f09fe96b29~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_800,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Khia </dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Children's Mental Health Week: Part 3]]></title><description><![CDATA[Working in schools and in agencies I have seen tons of black children go undiagnosed or being misdiagnosed. Now, I do not believe that every]]></description><link>https://notesbykhia.wixsite.com/notesbykhia/post/children-s-mental-health-week-part-3</link><guid isPermaLink="false">601c62f479b3400017bf2def</guid><category><![CDATA[Children's Mental Health ]]></category><category><![CDATA[Mental Health]]></category><pubDate>Fri, 05 Feb 2021 04:29:34 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/7b3c45_0ab8c680c52b4a7e9895efc65d98977e~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_800,h_300,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Khia </dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Children's Mental Health: Part 2]]></title><description><![CDATA[There are many different reasons that parents/guardians hesitate to seek mental health assistance - it may be fear, it may be not understand]]></description><link>https://notesbykhia.wixsite.com/notesbykhia/post/children-s-mental-health-part-2</link><guid isPermaLink="false">601837af45bf2c0017f69c7c</guid><category><![CDATA[Children's Mental Health ]]></category><category><![CDATA[Mental Health]]></category><pubDate>Tue, 02 Feb 2021 20:29:32 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/7b3c45_c5e4174292f14f5aabfec997224ed67c~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Khia </dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Children's Mental Health Week 2021: Part 1]]></title><description><![CDATA[The first week of Feb 2021 is the first week of Black History Month, National Children's Mental Health Week, and National School Counselors ]]></description><link>https://notesbykhia.wixsite.com/notesbykhia/post/children-s-mental-health-week-2021-part-1</link><guid isPermaLink="false">601821be9888a20017129653</guid><category><![CDATA[Mental Health]]></category><category><![CDATA[Children's Mental Health ]]></category><pubDate>Mon, 01 Feb 2021 16:37:44 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/7b3c45_fd2969f288f94b279a0199c60dd0ddc5~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Khia </dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[5 Things to Remember When Talking to Your Child ]]></title><description><![CDATA[Hi! Thanks for stopping by! While some may think it should be obvious why you should be talking to your child let me start off with some...]]></description><link>https://notesbykhia.wixsite.com/notesbykhia/post/5-things-to-remember-when-talking-to-your-child</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6004ae11f6b6cb01fbe680de</guid><category><![CDATA[Children's Mental Health ]]></category><category><![CDATA[Mental Health]]></category><pubDate>Mon, 18 Jan 2021 03:19:34 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/7b3c45_4aba14b95b6c46a3bb94ff57fe610f23~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_800,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Khia </dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[3 Things Your Child Needs to Hear More Often ]]></title><description><![CDATA[For every correction you are giving there should be three times as many compliments, affirmations, and positive responses.]]></description><link>https://notesbykhia.wixsite.com/notesbykhia/post/3-things-your-child-needs-to-hear-more-often</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5fb3a8e8c6fc6300170cee47</guid><category><![CDATA[Children's Mental Health ]]></category><category><![CDATA[Mental Health]]></category><pubDate>Tue, 17 Nov 2020 11:31:47 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/7b3c45_c5bafe1735774e5287f37bb0b0ae045d~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_800,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Khia </dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[5 Positive Parenting Tips for your Teen ]]></title><description><![CDATA[Teens are a rough group to parent- finding themselves plus raging hormones that they seem to not be able to communicate outside of attitudes]]></description><link>https://notesbykhia.wixsite.com/notesbykhia/post/parenting-teens</link><guid isPermaLink="false">5f5eac2d6f9c4d00172380e3</guid><category><![CDATA[Children's Mental Health ]]></category><pubDate>Tue, 15 Sep 2020 05:00:03 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/7b3c45_e05114d21fb54372a4918e617767b1c9~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_800,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Khia </dc:creator></item></channel></rss>